Archive for March, 2010
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Pregnant
After giving birth, I discovered many changes in my body. The obvious part is my stomach. There are lots of scars and my tummy become flabby L. Currently I consume slimming tea and hopefully my stomach will become flat.
Things become worst when I discovered there are bleeding and also a bump sliding down while I was on the toilet. I was very panic and without waiting any longer, I went to see the doctor. The doctor told me it was hemorrhoids, nothing serious but I still need to get the hemorrhoid treatment. He added that this happen maybe because of pressure on the veins during my pregnancy. After taking treatment suggested by the doctor, I feel much better now and going to toilet is not something painful anymore.
Now I realize how much sacrifice women have to make. It is not easy becoming a woman but I’m happy to know that “the hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world”!
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Jealousy
Is jealousy creating problems in your relationship? All of us have experienced that disturbing feeling called jealousy and it’s a fact that a third of all couples have trouble dealing with jealousy.
Anger and jealousy together will eat away at the fabric of a relationship and can have an effect on every part of your life.
Does this describe you?
• Are you the one who is jealous when their partner has done nothing wrong to deserve it?
• On the other hand, are you the completely innocent victim of the jealous behaviour of your partner?
• Alternatively, have you or your partner lied to the other, and are finding it difficult to trust each other again?What causes jealousy?
There are a number of myths about jealously as well as an associated relationship wrecker, possessiveness. Jealous behavior happens when we believe something about someone that is not actually true, typically caused by all the wild thoughts flowing through our mind.
Dealing with jealousy can be easier said than done, as it’s usually a result of life experiences that can leave somebody with a deep sense of insecurity in their private relationships. If you are unsure of yourself in the relationship with your partner then you are liable to have jealousy issues.
Are you too jealous of your partner?
You might be the jealous one yourself who needs help with overcoming your jealousy towards your partner.
If you are very jealous of your partner, it will wreck your relationship if not tackled immediately. Obsessive jealousy kills otherwise healthy relationships, and creates uncomfortable and distressing social situations. Jealousy has devastated many otherwise good relationships – don’t let it devastate yours.Once you understand why jealousy happens there are ways for getting rid of jealousy for good providing you are ready to make changes
Are you a victim of a jealous partner?
Trust me, I have been a victim of jealousy myself and know exactly how you feel. You get the feeling of being watched constantly and become afraid of doing certain things to avoid trouble.
It’s not very nice at all and affects your social life and relationships with other people. It’s hard to understand why your partner is so jealous when you have done nothing wrong isn’t it?
If you love your partner, wouldn’t it be great to find out why they were so jealous and put an end to it so you could have a much better relationship?
What can be done to overcome jealousy?
The first step to changing anything in your life begins with making a firm promise to change. If you don’t make changes then you will stay in the same pattern of jealous behaviour forever.
You must break this pattern if you want to improve your relationship and finally overcome jealousy and insecurity. To conquer jealousy you have to understand your feelings and let go of the emotional baggage from your past. Then it’s up to you to take some action to help you with controlling the jealousy that is wrecking your relationship.
How to stop jealousy.
If you really want to stop being jealous or if your partner is too jealous of you, then there is help available that will help you understand what jealousy is and how it can be overcome. If irrational jealousy is hurting your relationship, then you need to find out the causes and get advice so that you can stop it for good.
However, if you’re looking for a magic bullet for controlling jealousy, then there is no such thing.
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Parenting Magazine
See the picture? It is actually a parenting magazine that I got after becoming a member of this one club. This is not my first FREE magazine actually. I love this kind of magazine, not too thick but full of useful information especially ob how to raise children. I love ‘What’s New” section or page. This time there are reviews on new milk products, acne products and also new handbags collection. I love this section very much because it provides me with information on the new things available in market today.
Tried & Tested Tips section is also my favorite. It gives me tips and info on the simple things that sometimes never come across in our mind. I’m so happy when I read this simple tip that could help me whenever I take my son to shower. It stated:-
“Children can be terrified of having water get into their eyes while taking a shower. Not only can soapy irritate the eyes, water can temporarily blur vision. Well, goggles are not just for swimming. A pair of goggles worn over the eyes helps your child to shower in comfort.” Simple and yet practical right? -
How do I spend my holidays?
After a week holiday, tomorrow I’ll be back to work. Time flies really fast but I’m glad because I managed to do all the things that I wanted to do during the holidays. Although I have to sacrifice two days of my holidays attending a seminar but I’m really glad because I have 5 days left. I spent 2 days at my mum’s house, bringing my two sons with me. This is the time where they can play with their cousin. My youngest son was so excited and happy having friends whom he can play with. I myself was having a wonderful moment with my mother. Everyday we will sit together for several hours and ‘discuss’ about everything that happened to the family members. It is more to gossiping actually
We rarely got the chance to interact with each other so this is the time where we can tell everything that inside our hearts.I spent the rest of my holidays at home, doing house chores, cleaning and cleaning and cleaning. I also managed to clean inside of me by using the colon and body cleanse. I have to do this during the holidays because after taking it for sure I’ll go to the toilet frequently. Now I feel a little bit lighter
Apart from that, I also went to the barber and cut my hair with the style that I longing for. So tomorrow everybody will see me with a new and fresh look! -
Dealing with Heart
I’m back! I’m so glad to be here, in front of the laptop. I really hope after this there won’t be a long break anymore. Everything seems to be so complicated, and every single day I discovered an unpleasant attitude. Everything is revealed now including the hidden things. It is not something like cellulite where I can always get various cellulite cures in the market and the effectiveness is also proven. This is about heart, things inside it. Do we have any medicine to cure the black heart? I wish there is so that human can always live in harmony. But for me, to heal any matters with heart is by being loyal and faithful with God. God will listen to you and will guide you through the right path. May God bless you all.
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Who I really am
Sometimes I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’m not happy with myself. I don’t really know whether I’m happy with my career or not. After 7 years working, I fell like I’m not supposed to be here, I don’t deserve it! If I could turn back the time, for sure I will turn my career wheel to the other way and looking for something that could lead me to self satisfaction. Is it too late for me now? I’ve tried but maybe it is not enough. I have to work harder. But doing something without any encouragement is not really easy. What am I going to do? -
Today’s News
I flipped through today’s newspaper. Same story again. Story that would definitely make my heart sank. I just couldn’t understand, why human sometimes become inhumane? How dare they abuse a small child? This kind of man should be abused first before sending them to jail!
I don’t have the heart to continue my reading on child abuse. So I flipped to another page of the newspaper. Again! One more crime story highlighted. Why there must be crime happened everyday? I don’t have any interest to read this story on snatch thief, another same story happened again and again and all the time. The government should give them a tougher lesson! Then, I arrived at my favourite part which is the advertisement. I just love looking at and comparing price with another store. At the top right corner of the newspaper is a list of top rated diet pills. I’m so glad to see that the pill that I consume is in the list among the top one! I stopped at that page quite long, looking for something that value for money. I have no interest with the content on the next page which is the business part. Coming after that is the entertainment section. I’m not the type of person who really concern about celebrities’ life. I just read the title and that’s it! I’m done with today’s news -
Night’s Life
After struggling from morning until evening, night would be or should be a time for me to rest. After taking my bath, I will take my children to sleep. Sometimes I have to accompany them for more than two hours but sometimes they will fall asleep easily. It depends on my luck on that day, I guess!
Then I will go to the kitchen to find something to eat like apple, biscuits, bread or even instant noodles. Before going to sleep, I will make sure to apply only the best night creams on my face.
When sleeping, I have to wake up every two hours because normally the kids will ask for milk and that is their routine. Waking up in the middle of your sleeping is not something easy. I have to gather my strengths and force myself to get up. I don’t know when I can have a comfortable and undisturbed sleeping time. -
EMAS
Have you heard about EMAS? It is actually a prototype car designed by Proton Malaysia. The car was shown at the 80th International Motor Show in Geneva recently. As a Malaysian, I’m so proud at Proton who can come out with such a great and cool design car. The best part is, Proton will release the car to public in 2012! I can’t wait and I’m eager to own it. Everybody is making their own perception about the price of the car. So far the price of Proton’s car is still affordable because they (Proton) always say it is for majority of the public. For people like me I can’t own even the Ferrari parts, owning the Ferrari itself would be a dream comes true. So, thanks to Proton for making our life easier by creating and releasing an affordable car for Malaysian.
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